Jamie L. Rabalais v. Derek Rabalais
Jamie L. Rabalais v. Derek Rabalais, No. CA-0023-0164 (La. Ct. App. 3d Cir. Oct. 18, 2023).
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Opinion text
STATE OF LOUISIANA
COURT OF APPEAL, THIRD CIRCUIT
23-164
JAMIE L. RABALAIS
VERSUS
DEREK J. RABALAIS
SRR RGR
APPEAL FROM THE
FIFTEENTH JUDICIAL DISTRICT COURT
PARISH OF LAFAYETTE, NO. 20176790
HONORABLE DAVID A. BLANCHET, DISTRICT JUDGE
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VAN H. KYZAR
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Court composed of Shannon J. Gremillion, Van H. Kyzar, and Sharon Darville
Wilson, Judges.
AFFIRMED.
Scott M. Hawkins
Hawkins & Associates, LLC
913 South College Road, Suite 260
Lafayette, LA 70503
(337) 210-8818
COUNSEL FOR DEFENDANT/APPELLANT:
Derek J. Rabalais
Philip C. Kobetz
David P. Kobetz
Philip C. Kobetz, LTD., A Professional Law Corporation
P. O. Box 80275
Lafayette, LA 70598-0275
(337) 291-1990
COUNSEL FOR PLAINTIFF/APPELLEE:
Jamie L. Rabalais
KYZAR, Judge.
In this child support and custody dispute, the defendant, Derek J. Rabalais,
appeals from the trial court judgment ordering that the costs of private school tuition
be included in the calculation of his child support obligation. For the reasons set
forth, we affirm the ruling of the trial court.
FACTS AND PROCEDURAL HISTORY
Derek J. Rabalais and Jamie L. Rabalais were married on March 20, 2004,
and are the parents of three minor children born in 2006, 2007, and 2010. After
Derek and Jamie separated in 2016, Jamie moved with the children back to Lafayette
Parish, where the parties had been domiciled prior to moving to Destrehan,
Louisiana in 2013, for Derek’s employment. As a result of a May 15, 2018 Joint
Custody Implementation Plan, the parties agreed that custody of the children would
be shared jointly, and Jamie would be designated as the domiciliary parent.
Although the parties’ divorce was finalized on February 1, 2019, proceedings
between them relative to child support, custody, and community property have been
highly contentious and ongoing.
At issue in this appeal is Jamie’s decision to enroll the two youngest children,
Kate and Leah, in private school at Vermilion Catholic.' On July 7, 2021, Derek
filed a motion challenging this decision, arguing that the children had historically
attended public schools and that their elder brother, Jay, was attending public school.
He claimed that the change in schools was not in Kate and Leah’s best interests and
that there was “no bona fide showing that the children’s attendance at a private
school meets a particular educational need which is not being met by the public
school.” Thus, he argued, he “should not be responsible for a pro-rata share of the
' The official name of Vermilion Catholic is Vermilion Catholic, a legacy of Mount
Carmel.
school expenses.” Jamie responded to the motion on July 20, 2021, and additionally
filed various reconventional demands against Derek.
This matter was heard by the trial court on March 30, April 1, and May 23,
2022, which included the consideration of six separate motions and/or rules to show
cause. At the close of the hearing, the trial court took the matter under advisement,
ordering counsel for the parties to submit post-trial memoranda. The trial court then
issued written reasons for judgment on July 20, 2022, finding in addition to other
rulings, that it was in the best interest of the children that they attend Vermilion
Catholic and that the costs associated therewith would be included in Derek’s child
support obligation. A written judgment was rendered by the trial court on October
19, 2020, and all other portions of the judgment not appealed are deemed final.
On appeal, Derek raises two assignments of error:
1. The trial court committed legal error by applying the incorrect legal
analysis and burden of proof in determining the children had a need
to attend private school. This assignment of error is subject to de
novo review.
2. The trial court abused its discretion when it determined that it was
proven that the children had a need, within the meaning of La. R.S.
9:315.6, to attend private school. This assignment of error is subject
to abuse of discretion/manifest error review.
OPINION
In brief, Derek contends that the trial court committed legal error in its
application of La.R.S. 9:315.6 and that it erroneously applied the best interest
analysis of La.R.S. 9:335(B)(3), rather than the “need” analysis of La.R.S. 9:315.6,
when it explicitly found that enrollment in Vermilion Catholic was in the best
interests of the children.
Although Derek’s appeal only questions the trial court’s inclusion of
Vermilion Catholic’s tuition in his child support obligation, that question is
inextricably intertwined with the trial court’s finding that it was in Kate and Leah’s
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best interest that they attend the school. Accordingly, we will discuss these
questions together.
“[T]he plain language of La. R.S. 9:335 manifests the legislature’s clear intent
to establish a custodial system in which a child has a domiciliary parent and no more
than one such parent. The text is clear.” Hodges v. Hodges, 15-585, p. 9 (La.
11/23/15), 181 So.3d 700, 706. “All major decisions made by the domiciliary parent,
which would include the choice of schools, are subject to judicial review upon
motion by the non-domiciliary parent.” Shaw v. Shaw, 30,613, p. 8 (La.App. 2 Cir.
6/24/98), 714 So.2d 906, 910, writs denied, 98-2414, 98-2426 (La. 11/20/98), 729
So.2d 556, 558; La.R.S. 9:335(B)(3). On appellate review, “it is presumed that all
major decisions made by the domiciliary parent are in the best interest of the child
and the burden of proving they are in fact not in the best interest of the child is placed
on the non-domiciliary parent who opposes the decision.” /d. A trial court’s ruling
in a custody matter “is entitled to great weight, and its discretion will not be disturbed
on review in the absence of a clear showing of abuse.” C.MUJ/. v. £.M.C., 14-1119,
p. 17 (La. 10/15/14), 156 So.3d 16, 29. Furthermore, a trial court’s findings of fact
will not be “disturbed on appeal absent manifest error.” Jd.
Louisiana Revised Statutes 9:315.6(1) provides that “[e]xpenses of tuition,
registration, books, and supply fees required for attending a special or private
elementary or secondary school to meet the needs of the child[]” may be added to
the basic child support obligation “[b]y agreement of the parties or order of the
court[.]” When La.R.S. 9:315.6 was amended by 2001 La. Acts No. 1082, § 1, the
official comment provided as follows:
Prior to 2001 “any expenses” for attending a special or private
elementary or secondary school to meet the “particular educational”
needs of the child could be added to the basic child support obligation
calculated using the guideline tables. Clarifying language was added
to Paragraph (1) to specify the types of school expenses—tuition,
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registration, books and supply fees required for attending the school—
permitted to be added to the basic child support amount, but the
necessity of showing that attendance at the special or private school was
required to meet the “particular educational” needs of the child was
eliminated. The needs of the child met by the special or private school
need not be particular educational needs but may include such needs of
the child as the need for stability or continuity in the child’s educational
program.
Absent an agreement between her and Derek, Jamie was required to present evidence
to establish that a private school education was necessary to meet the needs of the
children in order for the tuition to be included in Derek’s child support obligation.
Short v. Short, 11-3 (La.App. 5 Cir. 10/25/11), 77 So.3d 405, writ denied, 11-2635
(La. 2/10/12), 80 So.3d 472.
The decision to add private school tuition expenses to the basic child support
obligation will not be disturbed unless it is an abuse of the trial court’s discretion.
AS. v. D.S., 14-1098 (La.App. 4 Cir. 4/8/15), 165 So.3d 247. A trial court
necessarily abuses its discretion if its ruling is based on an erroneous view of the
law. Id.
The trial court, in its written reasons, set forth the following on the issue of
the children attending private school:
1. Whether enrolling Leah in Mount Carmel and Kate in
Vermilion Catholic is in their best interest
Since JAMIE and the children relocated from Destrehan to
Youngsville, Louisiana, in 2017, the minor children were enrolled in
the Lafayette Parish Public School System. During the 2020-2021
school year, Kate began to have problems at school. Kate and other
students were involved in cyberbullying, some of which was initiated
by Kate. At some point, a photograph of Kate in a bikini began to be
circulated on-line among students at the school. In addition, a picture
depicting a female from the neck down either nude or scantily clad also
began to circulate among students at the school via social media
purporting to be a photograph of Kate. In fact, the photograph was not
of Kate, but the bullying and ridicule caused Kate great emotional
distress. Around this time, Kate began to receive inappropriate
communications over social media from her future stepmother’s
brother, known as “Dutch”, who is approximately fifty (50) years of
age. Dutch repeatedly communicated with Kate for several months at
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all hours of the day through various social media platforms. When Kate
blocked Dutch on a particular platform, he got around it by contacting
her through another social media provider. Dutch even told Kate he got
a special tattoo on his neck for her. At some point, Kate began to feel
uncomfortable about the attention she was receiving from Dutch and
confided in JAMIE about the situation. JAMIE reached out to DEREK,
who initially blamed Kate. Unfortunately, when Kate attended the
wedding of her father and stepmother, a conversation ensued between
Kate and her cousin regarding Dutch’s unwanted contact. The cousin
referred to Dutch as a pedophile, which was overheard by Dutch
causing him to become angry. This caused a huge scene at the wedding.
Kate’s stepmother accused her of ruining her wedding day.
Leah was also having school issues at this time. Leah was
depressed and unhappy at her school. The larger class sizes caused her
to have issues paying attention making it harder for her to learn.
Overlaying all of this was the parents’ ongoing litigation more
fully discussed above, their poor communication and the children being
placed in the middle of their disputes.
JAMIE began to look into Mount Carmel and Vermilion Catholic
in March of 2021. At that time, JAMIE filed paperwork seeking
scholarships for Kate to attend Vermilion Catholic. On May 13, 2021,
JAMIE and DEREK had a telephone conversation regarding their
daughters changing schools, as referenced in July 3, 2021 email from
JAMIE to DEREK. The email reads as follows:
Since our conversation on May 13" regarding the children
and the issues with Kate at school and Southside not being
the best High Schoo! option for her ..... ve been looking
into other school options for the girls. While Southside
High has been great for Jay I agree that it’s not the best
option for Kate or Leah. I’ve narrowed it down to
Vermilion Catholic for Kate and Mount Carmel for
Leah....they are sister schools with campus [sic] next door
to each other and about 15 minutes from my house with
much less traffic to get there. In addition, to the school
being substantially smaller and offering better
curriculum/environment they offer free school tutoring.
Also Jay has done well at Southside High and I don’t want
to jeopardize that for him considering in the past Kate’s
drama has caused to get him in trouble...[.] I don’t want a
repeat of this for him. In addition to these schools
supporting our Catholic faith [sic] they offer more future
opportunities for college scholarships and offer better
preparation for them. Derek, I’ve put a lot of thought and
research into this and I think this is the best option for the
girls. I haven’t discussed with the children yet because it’s
not their decision and I wanted to have the conversation
with you first.
DEREK’s initial response was that he did not agree with
enrolling Kate and Leah in a Catholic or private school. When JAMIE
asked for DEREK’s reasoning, he responded as follows on July 4, 2021:
Our conversation on May 13" was based on Kates [sic]
actions on social media and the people she is hanging
around. I definitely feel they are a bad influence on her.
I’m not sure why now you feel the schools are not good
for the girls? You indicated on multiple occasions the
reason you moved to where you currently are was based
on how great the schools were for the kids.
I did message you on May 16" that I believe it would be a
good idea for Kate to move here with me because I don’t
feel Lafayette is a good fit for her. The idea came from
Kate when she expressed she wanted to move here. The
changing of schools was mentioned as a talking point
to the idea of her moving here, to St. Charles [P]arish
to start over and get a change of environment and
friends to what she is currently around.
I am very fortunate to live in a parish with a great school
district. In fact, it was the main reason we chose to live in
Lulling [sic] when we moved here, and I 100% [sic] feel
it would be great for Kate to move here.
Please help me understand how her going to the school
you are suggesting will change her behavior? Will she no
longer be able to hang out with the friends she has now by
going to that school? Kate realizing [sic] and truly
understanding that her actions make her look horrible and
that when a boy sees those actions it makes them see her
in certain ways. That is what needs to be addressed, not
the changing of schools to fix these problems.
Kate is a great kid and makes good grades. I don’t
understand how one school offers more scholarships than
the other? With the right grades, hard work and applying
herself Kate can get a scholarship at which ever [sic]
school she goes to.
What exactly is the reason for Leah going to a different
school? Her grades are great and I have never been told
of any problems at all with her at school??
Attending a [C]atholic school is not the only way children
can get their faith. I definitely hope I’m teaching them to
live life in Gods [sic] eyes and going to church are just as
acceptable. (Emphasis added[.])
It is clear from DEREK’s response that he believes a change in
school environment and friends is a good idea for Kate, but his solution
is for her to move back to Destrehan with him. DEREK feels Lafayette
is not a good fit for Kate and states he does not see how a school would
change her behaviors or distance her from her present friends.
Despite DEREK’s protestations, JAMIE decided to enroll Leah
in Mount Carmel and Kate in Vermilion Catholic. A copy of Kate’s
registration for Vermilion Catholic was filed into evidence and is dated
July 8, 2021. Kate received two (2) scholarships from the school
reducing her tuition substantially. At the hearing, DEREK complained
that he did not know the children were enrolled in the new schools until
after the fact. However, DEREK’s “Motion to Challenge Domiciliary
Decision” was filed on July 7, 2021, the day before Kate was registered
at Vermilion Catholic, calling his allegation into question.
The Court finds that JAMIE complied with the provisions of R.S.
9:336, which states:
Joint custody obligates the parents to exchange
information concerning the health, education, and welfare
of the child and to confer with one another in exercising
decision-making authority.
DEREK’s first allegation is that JAMIE’s proposed change in
schools is not in the best interest of the minor children. As the
domiciliary parent, major decisions by JAMIE are presumed to be in
the best interest of the children subject to review by the Court upon
DEREK’s motion. See R.S. 9:[335](B)(3). The Court finds that
DEREK. has failed to rebut the presumption that JAMIE’s decision
regarding schooling is in the children’s best interest. The evidence is
overwhelming that Vermilion Catholic and Mount Carmel have served
the best interests of Kate and Leah, respectively. Dr. Amy Cavanaugh,
Ph.D., testified extensively regarding the benefits the children have
received from the school change. This was addressed both in her
testimony and her reports of September 28, 2021, and March 23, 2022,
introduced into evidence.
DEREK argues in his post-trial memorandum that though
JAMIE relies heavily on Dr. Cavanaugh’s opinion to justify enrolling
Kate and Leah in private school, she made the decision prior to Dr.
Cavanaugh’s involvement and without any recommendations from her
whatsoever. Dr. Cavanaugh’s Progress Note of July 8, 2022, indicates
that JAMIE discussed her decision to enroll Kate and Leah in private
school with Dr. Cavanaugh that day. In the appointment between Dr.
Cavanaugh and Kate that same day, Kate told Dr. Cavanaugh that her
mother just informed her she would be attending private school. The
school change was discussed by Dr. Cavanaugh and Kate during the
appointment. JAMIE registered Kate at Vermilion Catholic the
following day. JAMIE, as the domiciliary parent, has the right to make
major decisions for her children after discussing them with DEREK,
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which she did in this case. A domiciliary parent is not required to
consult a mental health professional when making such decisions. Dr.
Cavanaugh’s reports and testimony support this Court’s findings that
JAMIE enrolling Kate and Leah in private school was the right decision
and in their best interest.
In the above email, DEREK asks JAMIE two (2) questions, how
will Kate’s attendance at Vermilion Catholic change her behavior and
whether Kate will no longer “hang out” with her current friends? The
fact is, changing schools has changed Kate’s behavior. According to
Dr. Cavanaugh, Kate no longer associates with the people she
previously attended school with, and has made “a lot of friends”. She
enjoys smaller class sizes and close knit community of the school. Kate
committed herself to not being involved in any drama, she is making
good grades and describes the school as a good change for her,
particularly being around positive peers. DEREK also asks JAMIE in
his email whether the people on Kate’s social media no longer influence
her because of the school change. In reflecting on her past social media
behavior with Dr. Cavanaugh, Kate described it as “so trashy”. This
leads the Court to believe that Kate has gained valuable insight into her
former behavior and has developed self-respect, boundaries and a sense
of cyber safety. It is Kate’s belief that her father has seen that she has
changed in positive ways since transferring to Vermilion Catholic.
Kate reported to Dr. Cavanaugh that as of March of this year, her
behavior was such that her phone had not been taken away in two
hundred (200) days.
According to Dr. Cavanaugh, Leah states she loves her school
and wants to continue to attend. Leah reports that her grades are better
at Mount Carmel than Milton Elementary, even though the work is
more challenging. Leah has made new friends, describes the teachers
as nice and understanding, and the students as being really good
influences. Leah also reports it is easier for her to learn and pay
attention. Dr. Cavanaugh noted in her testimony that both girls saw a
positive change in each other since the school change.
2. Whether DEREK should pay his proportionate share of the
school expenses of tuition, registration, books, and supply fees
required for attending a special or private elementary or
secondary school to meet the needs of Kate and Leah in
accordance with R.S. 9:315.6
DEREK’s second argument as to why the children should not
attend private school is because the private schoo! does not meet a
particular educational need, thus he should not have to pay his
proportionate share of the school expenses. La. R.S. 9:315.6 provides
in pertinent part:
By agreement of the parties or order of the Court, the
following expenses incurred on behalf of the child may be
added to the basic child support obligation:
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(1) Expenses of tuition, registration, books and supplies
required for attending a special or private elementary
school to meet the needs of the child.
Though DEREK argues that JAMIE failed to meet her burden of
proof that the children have a need that can only be addressed by private
school, this is a misstatement of the law. After the 2001 amendment to
R.S. 9:315.6, there is no longer any necessity of showing that the
attendance at a private school was required to meet the “particular
educational” needs of the child. The official 2001 Comment to this
statute provides:
Prior to 2001 “any expenses” for attending a special or
private elementary or secondary schoo! to meet the
“particular educational” needs of the child could be added
to the basic child support obligation calculated using the
guideline tables. Clarifying language was added to
Paragraph (1) to specify the types of school expenses--
tuition, registration, books and supply fees required for
attending the school-permitted to be added to the basic
child support amount, but the necessity of showing that
attendance at the special or private school was required to
meet the “particular educational” needs of the child was
eliminated. The needs of the child met by the special or
private school need not be particular educational needs
but may include such needs of the child as the need for
stability or continuity in the child’s educational
program. (Emphasis added[.])
The comment makes it clear that JAMIE does not have to prove
the children have a need that only private school can address. The
needs of the child “may include such needs of the child as the need for
stability or continuity in the child’s educational program.” This
language is discretionary and “stability or continuity” are non-exclusive
examples of the types of needs that may be included. As stated by Dr.
Cavanaugh in her March 23, 2022 report:
Although children may be able to learn in any school
environment, children’s learning potential and academic
success are greatly improved when their behavioral
challenges are addressed and their social-emotional needs
are being met as they appear to be since Kate and Leah’s
enrollment at Vermilion Catholic this school year.
The Court agrees with this statement by Dr. Cavanaugh and finds
that the private school setting has greatly enhanced the educational
benefits for Leah and Kate. The fact that these children love the school,
have a high regard for the quality of their peer group, and are striving
for and achieving academic success meets the needs of the children’s
educational program. This is especially true considering the
acrimonious divorce of these parties, their constant litigation, the social
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media issues between Kate and her peers, as well as the inappropriate
contact and attention she received from Dutch. The Court finds that
DEREK should be responsible for his proportionate share of the school
expenses of Leah and Kate as set forth in La. R.S. 9:315.6.
JAMIE shall continue to use her best efforts to obtain
scholarships and tuition waivers for the children as she did for the 2021-
2022 school year.
(Second, third, fourth, seventh, and eleventh alterations in original.)
We agree with the well-reasoned factual findings and conclusions of the trial
court and find no misapplication of the law as to the decision to enroll the two
children in private school. Jamie conflates the issue of the domiciliary parent’s
decision to enroll the children in private school and the trial court’s determination of
the propriety of that decision using the best interest standard with the trial court’s
decision to require the non-domiciliary parent to pay at least a portion of that
expense, which is governed by the standard set forth in La.R.S. 9:315.6. That
provision specifically states that expenses for tuition “may be added to the basic
child support obligation” in order to “meet the needs of the child.” While the
domiciliary parent’s decision to send the child or children to a private school may
indeed be approved by the trial court as being in the best interest of the children, that
determination does not necessarily preclude the trial court from determining that the
decision is not necessary to meet the particular needs of the children, such that the
non-domiciliary parent is not obligated to share in the expense. We find no legal
error in the trial court’s application of the best interest standard in upholding Jamie’s
decision to enroll Kake and Leah in Vermilion Catholic.
We further find no abuse of the trial court’s discretion in its decision to include
the Vermilion Catholic tuition in the child-support calculation and requiring Derek
to pay his pro-rata share. As the official 2001 comment reflects, La.R.S. 9:315.6(1)
was broadened to allow consideration of more than just the particular educational
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needs and to allow for consideration of other circumstances that meet the needs of
the child. While the comment makes it clear that such needs may include stability
and continuity in the child’s educational program, clearly stability and continuity are
illustrative, but not exclusive, of the types of needs which may be satisfied by
sending a child to private school. Here, the trial court heard significant testimony as
to the reasons why Jamie believed it necessary for the two children to be enrolled in
Vermilion Catholic. Kate was subjected to bullying and significant peer pressure at
her prior school. According to Dr. Cavanaugh, an expert in the field of clinical and
medical psychology, she was further diagnosed with an adjustment disorder, which
is an accepted clinical diagnosis according to the diagnostic manual used by
psychologists and psychiatrists for diagnosing mental disorders.
When Dr. Cavanaugh was asked on direct examination if, in her opinion, it
was “in the best interest of Kate and Leah that they attend and continue to attend
Vermilion Catholic School[,]” she replied unequivocally, “Yes.” When asked
whether their enrollment at Vermilion Catholic met their needs, she stated, “I think
from a psychosocial emotional perspective, which means, like, the underpinning of
any learning or academic success that takes place, I think their attendance at
Vermilion Catholic meets that need for stability.” She further testified that based
on the “bullying and cyber issues with Kate, and then Leah’s description of being
unhappy and depressed at her previous school[,]” their needs were not being met by
their previous public schools.
The trial court agreed with Dr. Cavanaugh that Vermilion Catholic was
meeting the needs of the children. “A trial court may accept or reject in whole or in
part the opinion expressed by an expert[,]” and “[t]he effect and weight to be given
expert testimony is within the broad discretion of the trial judge.” Rao v. Rao, 05-
59, p. 14 (La.App. 1 Cir. 11/4/05), 927 So.2d 356, 365, writ denied, 05-2453 (La.
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3/24/06), 925 So.2d 1232. We find no abuse of that discretion here. As such, we
find no abuse of discretion or manifest error in the trial court’s decision to include
the private school tuition in Derek’s child support calculation.
DECREE
The judgement of the trial court is affirmed. All costs of this appeal are
assessed to Derek J. Rabalais.
AFFIRMED.
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